From the start, it's critical for you to recognize that your family member or friend's mental illness is not your fault, nor is it theirs. They are suffering from a very real—and treatable—illness that is rooted in the chemistry of their brain. It is not a weakness or a consequence of past events, and it can't be overcome by simply "trying harder."

Remember, You Are Not Alone

Mood disorders are illnesses just like asthma or heart disease. And they are more common than you might think: Millions of people around the world are affected by bipolar I disorder each year. With your help, your doctor can give your family member or friend the kind of help he or she really needs. As friends and family members, you can actively help in the treatment of your family member or friend. Here are some ways you might help:

• Learn more about their mental illness and how treatment can help
• Know the signs when your family member or friend is having symptoms
• If you belong to a prayer group - commit yourselves to regular prayer for the person who is suffering from the disorder
• Work with your family member or friend when he or she is stable to plan what to do when an episode arises
• Help your family member or friend stick with their treatment
• Avoid dismissing medical treatment, instead of prayer. Prayer and God's help is essential, but medication can also fulfil God's will
• Encourage them to avoid alcohol and street drugs
• Be patient during an episode
• Call the doctor, 911, or the hospital if your family member or friend shows signs of wanting to hurt himself or herself or others
• Take any guns out of the house to reduce the risk of suicide or violence
• Participate in prayer with the effected family and the sufferer
• Attend a support group meeting with your family member or friend